Friendship

True and enduring friendships seem more like a rarity these days- not something we should take for granted. Friendships that nurture and support are to be cherished... but are friendships always about making the other person feel good? The challenges of friendship can be stressful. Maybe we have forgotten how to be friends. Maybe we're too self-focused and self-centered, worried about whether our needs are being met, rather than focusing on what we have to give a friend.

We want our friends (especially the ones who are practically like family to us) to reach their full potential, realize their dreams and abilities, and overcome their obstacles. Henry Ward Beecher said "It is one of the severest tests of friendship to tell your friend his faults. So to love him that you cannot bear to see a stain upon him, and to speak painful truth, that is friendship".

THE ABC'S OF FRIENDSHIP

Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you?

Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone.

Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.

Don't look for their faults, even if you have none.

Encourage their dreams, what would we be without them?

Forgive them, you just MAY do something wrong sometime.

Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.

Have faith in them, the human animal is remarkable.

Include them, you may need to be included sometime.

Just be there when they need you.

Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?

Love them unconditionally, that is the ONLY condition.

Make them feel special, because aren't we ALL special?

Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten?

Offer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness.

Praise them honestly and openly.

Quietly disagree, noisy NO's make enemies.

Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm.

Say you're sorry, don't let them assume it.

Talk frequently, communication is important.

Use good judgment.

Verbalize your feelings!

Wish them luck, hopefully good!

X-amine your motives before you "help" out.
Your words count, use them wisely.

Zip your lips when told a secret.